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| Couple bracelets (center, gold with turquoise) from Alati by Gabriela Tatad |
This is to remind me that I am fulfilled, sane, thriving, focused, creative, beautiful, intelligent and happy even without a partner.
That I can face anything by myself and that I should love myself first before giving love to someone else.
That I am my own person, and I am very much COMPLETE and replete with love and support from family, friends and colleagues.
That I do not subscribe to the belief of having "another half that makes a person whole". I can give a part of me to another person--to share myself so that I can enrich that person's life--but I will never fully lose my being. I am independent, and will continue to be, even if I am in a romantic relationship.
So, these bracelets that I got--I'll wear them everyday until I've found a person who's worthy of having a piece of my being.
And whoever he is, he must surely be as fulfilled, happy and independent. He will not "give meaning" to my life-- I already know what I'm meant for-- but will complement my qualities and support me in every way.
Happiness is not having someone to anchor on my identity. Happiness is being strong. Happiness is me.
Happiness is not having someone to anchor on my identity. Happiness is being strong. Happiness is me.
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